Nonmonogamy: one plus one is 1, one plus two is 3, and one plus three is 6.To “do relationships” well, there are two factors that must be considered: 1. The individuals involved. 2. The relationships.Jul 29, 2022Jul 29, 2022
Do you reward the minor improvements?Or, do you punish the lack of perfection? I’ll admit, I do both.Jul 27, 2022Jul 27, 2022
The Culture of Sex-Pos Kink PartiesWhosThatBear presented the topic “How to Plan an Orgy” for Dating Kinky’s ‘It’s All About PLAY!’ Weekend event. Here is a clip where he…Jul 26, 2022Jul 26, 2022
8 Tips to Communicating CompassionatelyI’ve covered priorities, openness and respect in communication. Today, I’m tackling compassion.Jul 25, 2022Jul 25, 2022
A prayer for your love…Not sure where this came from, except from the heart today. I wish all of this for all of you.Jul 22, 2022Jul 22, 2022
The balance of power exchange and romance…When you have power exchange relationship with romance, you actually have two relationships: Power exchange dynamic + RomanticJul 21, 2022Jul 21, 2022
The business of kink…One thing I’ve noticed in kink — versus the swinging world or nearly any other passion/hobby communities I’ve been in — kinksters…Jul 20, 20221Jul 20, 20221
What’s your communication style? (And how does it affect your relationships?)While I was watching Deb teach this, I realized that different situations bring out different communication styles in us. What’s YOUR…Jul 19, 2022Jul 19, 2022
There is rampant slut-shaming in polyamory/nonmonogamy communities.And you know what else? It’s encouraged by many.Jul 18, 2022Jul 18, 2022
I don’t NEED a partner. Neither do you, I bet.I began to realize that while I didn’t need another human to make my way through the world, especially one specific other human, the way…Jul 15, 2022Jul 15, 2022