A couple weeks back, over the course of a weekend, I hosted and participated in an immersive online experience for FLR, FemDom, and Women in Charge enthusiasts. Over several months, I had gathered questions about women-led lifestyles, and used those questions to choose topics and presenters, and to shape my…

In September of 2020, Meg-John Barker presented the topic Consensual Relationships for Dating Kinky’s weekend event, ‘More Than Yes or No,’ and I was the host/interviewer. …

Four weeks ago, I wrote that communication is a tool, not a solution. I mentioned that without a few key elements, communication is more likely to harm than to heal. Those are: Priorities Openness Respect Compassion Autonomy Two weeks ago, I wrote “What are you trying to get out of…

BE POSITIVE! IT’LL GET BETTER! YOU’LL GET OVER IT! The messages are everywhere. See the good. Ignore or push away the bad. Move onward and upward! And I’m often one of those voices. My Throwback Thursday podcast on May 19th was to a post from January 2021 that was my…

On December 10, 2021, I presented the topic ‘Ouch! That STILL Hurts! Navigating trauma in and out of kink.’ for Dating Kinky’s 12 Days of Kinkmas. …

How do you communicate best? How do you receive communication best? And does it even matter? I think so. A while back, I decided to research communication styles in the Google. A quick search brought up a lot of articles, but all were about the four basic communication styles: passive…

On March 15, 2021, Lady Ginger presented the topic Long Distance Play for Dating Kinky’s FemDom Friday. …

I spent a few hours on the Clubhouse app the other day. I realized I’d installed it over a year back, and just never really took that step. But I tried it out, and now, it’s sort of a guilty pleasure. A deep dive into the human psyche, raw and…

In my book Dating Kinky: How to find the kinky partner of your fantasies, I have a chapter titled, Statistics And Charts For The Geek In You in the section Why Is It So Hard To Find A _____? And the simple answer is that it’s not hard to find…