BDE (Big Dick Energy) and Confident Versus Cocky

Confident vs. Cocky

  • confident
  • lack of confidence
  • insecurity
  • cockiness

Why confidence?


  1. belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance: His lack of confidence defeated him.
  2. certitude; assurance: He described the situation with such confidence that the audience believed him completely.


How to tell the difference?

Is lack of BDE a failing in a human or a potential mate?

BDE is also not a universal standard.

What are your thoughts?

And I almost forgot…



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Nookie @ Dating Kinky

Nookie @ Dating Kinky

Writing about healthy and fun sex, ethical non-monogamy and kink for everyone, running a kinky dating site at, and exploring life.